Proportional encounters

Life is full of contradictions; whether we like it or not… There’s always the big and there’s the small; there’s the high and surely the low…  yet what really amazes me are the double standards…Yes, the fact that it’s alright for someone to think or to do something; yet it is not for someone else…   That happens when people really think high of themselves; I mean higher than they should think… Logically, the intolerable initiative  that it’s OK for to insult B, but it’s NOT OK for B to insult A. Of course, B and A can be replaced with many different races, religions, etc.

We are thoughtful drivers, others in traffic are mere jerks; or; Men are Jerks, Women are victims; and my favorite; females checking a man’s butt is acceptable, males doing the same will be labeled as pigs! Men having females friends are out of the line; women sleep with their exes is insecurity! apparently it’s a never ending list, and sometimes it’s better to let go… not to go coco.

Imagine a girl approaches you and says that her friend would like to meet you (what is more thrilling than that)? On the other hand, if your male friend approaches a girl and tells her that you want to meet her, she might just be turned off by your lack of confidence and lack of ability to approach her directly by yourself.

When Joseph Stalin said “One death is a tragedy; one million is a statistic” he was talking about the two types of people in life; leaders and followers… to him cattle is just a number… even when I thought I could role that out of this equation; I failed… both are human beings; yet labeled once more!

When I thought I could discuss this; I proved myself wrong; it’s our nature I believe (to a certain degree), but sometimes with some it’s just too much… Yes, I agree a person should believe in himself and posses a high self esteem; but not to extreme degrees cause that’s not even arrogance; but a plain sickness.

So, stay healthy 😉

No matter where we are; and no matter where we end up to be… it will always be five o’clock somewhere… despite the fact that we have time zones… Irony? or another contradiction?

Dr. Ahmed Alkhuzaie




Evolution as I know it evolves man from being a basic creature, living like the animals to what we became today; civilized. Now, some societies wants to skip such steps and invert what nature enforced. In order for a society to evolve, people have to evolve in return for the society to do so. Not the other way around! Germany for example was a land known for farmers and farms, when Hitler and his renowned party took over; a new set of firm and strict regulations have transformed that society into the hardest working people to ever walk the earth in modern times (beside the Japanese). I don’t support Hitler and his ideals, but I stand by anything I see right (as much as I could). Germans, from there had a new spirit, instead of saying “what would Germany do for us”, Hitler made them think “what could they give to Germany” instead; and that was they key success factor that made Germany what it is, and what made Japan what it is as well. In both scenarios building the country started from within; and that what made all the difference. So, any society that wants to have a higher standard, on all aspects should look within and be the change they want to see in the world, and not expect all factors to change by themselves, for them to come and enjoy it! That will never happen. I sometimes can measure that by driving around… By standing in a queue; or even walk on streets… Can we compare our driving to the Germans? In that country if you miss use your car honk you may be jailed, while here people use it to greet each other! Here where no one sticks to his turn in a queue, in japan is a ground to be prosecuted. My point is, evolution is something you start by yourself, admit your mistakes and fix them, from there everything will be more than we want; stop blaming others for your faults and take initiatives; be responsible.

In a land where no one believes they do mistakes and blame everyone else instead, a revolution isn’t what’s required, but an evolution!

Someone who started to dare to believe,

Dr. Ahmed Alkhuzaie